27 September 2010

I Wish Our Children A World of Love, Safety, and Respect

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I am Guan-Yin protector of children

In my world no child ever suffers more pain
than the bumps, bruises, and breaks—the folly
of youthful adventure and risk-taking

I am Guan-Yin and children are revered for their differences

Children of both sexes are never exposed to the cruelty
of bigots whose intolerance is bred of ignorance and fear
cookie-cutter children don't exist in my world
each child is a unique shining beacon of hope

I am Guan-Yin protector of infants and toddlers

Baby girls aren't raped by trusted grandfathers and brothers
leaving behind hazy memories of something not quite right
growing up being told nothing ever happened as they
slowly spiral down into the hell of addiction or worse

I am Guan-Yin and I don't allow children to be stolen

A nine-year old girl is never kidnapped from her home
whereabouts unknown for 10 horrifyingly long months
identified by dental records when tiny bones encased in filthy sheets
are found in the trunk of an abandoned car rusting in the woods

I am Guan-Yin protector of the innocent women-children

A young teen-aged girl walking across the bridge
on her way home in the dusky rain-soaked evening
is never offered a ride by a male acquaintance
raped at knife-point and left forever changed

I am Guan-Yin enforcer of healthy boundaries for all children

A teen-aged girl working in the family business
is never given inappropriate gifts by a married man
grabbed onto and forcibly kissed while she pushes back
her mother never scoffs telling her she overreacted

I am Guan-Yin and I protect those who can't protect themselves

Never will four 21-year old young women travel
to Nawlins for Mardi Gras for wild adventure
3 out of 4 saying no—raped—believing it was
their fault for drinking one too many Hurricanes

I am not Guan-Yin—I knew each of these children
those of us who survived are still haunted by memories
we share a common bond of abuse without justice
our silence driven by fear, shame, and guilt

As bloggers many of us receive requests for help. Alexandra forwarded an email to me from Country-Fried Mama. Tuesday, September 28, we're linking up our blog posts to help raise awareness for the work of the Joyful Heart Foundation.
"Mariska [Hargitay, Detective Olivia Benson on “Law & Order: SVU"] founded Joyful Heart in 2004 with the intention of helping survivors heal and reclaim their lives. Today, Joyful Heart's mission is to heal, educate, and empower survivors of sexual assault, domestic violence, and child abuse, and to shed light into the darkness that surrounds these issues."
My perfect world for children includes far more than I've written about today. For now, I'll stay on point and write about the things I know that relate to the work of Joyful Heart.

I am Guan-Yin and I believe all children deserve to live in a world that doesn't yet exist


Country-Fried Mama is hosting the link-up for all who care to participate by sharing their hopes and dreams for their children. Please join us on Tuesday. See you there.

How many people have you known who would make your list of those who survived, are still struggling to find their way back, or never came home?

37 thinkers thunk a thought:

  1. Broke my heart. You're making a difference to someone, somewhere. I know because it made a difference to me.

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  2. As a forensic nurse who has spent the past 21 years of my life as a sexual assault nurse examiner caring for the victims of adult rape and child sexual abuse and for victims of interpersonal violence, I applaud the work of all organizations that are helping in the healing of those traumatized in this arena.

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  3. You make us face the shadows, Cheryl, thereby changing us, bit by bit. Thank you.

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  4. Thank you Cheryl for shedding light on the abuses faced by too many children, myself included. I will check out Joyful Heart. God bless!

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  5. oh my stomach turned not too far into this...these things should not happen...any organization that helps rid the world of hurt children, i support...

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  6. Beautiful. I love that you are not afraid to speak the truth of the hard topics. I work with abused/nelgected children and their aren't enough voices on their behalf.

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  7. Thank you for supporting this important cause, Cheryl.

    You are a very strong presence in the blogosphere for breathing life and energy into causes.

    So many thank you.

    Thank you for this, and for getting the word out.

    Thank you.

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  8. sad piece, masterfully done...
    love your kind spirits.

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  9. share your piece so that more people know your post if you wish...
    Happy Monday!

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  10. A deep piece Cheryl...very powerful indeed. I need a little more of funny cheryl...where did you go? This is a long hard week and well, come on - share me some smiles!!!

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  11. Sobering and profound.

    Thanks, Cheryl.

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  12. Bitter truth.Something very sad yet you have the courage to them in words.good work

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  13. Beautifully written. I loved how you used the goddess of compassion to address such a painful issue. Thank you.
    Victoria

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  14. Heavy stuff. Bravo for tackling this.

    Regards

    Luke @ WordSalad

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  15. I am one of those survivors you mentioned above, sexually abused by my uncle for five years when I was a child.

    Now I am working hard to build that world that doesn't yet exist.

    Thanks for sharing this and adding your voice to cry out for more, for better, for lives free of abuse for everyone. It touched my heart deeply.

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  16. We have to keep believing and each doing our part as their proctectors...bkm

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  17. Thank you for sharing your words, for sharing yourself. This is a powerful, important post.

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  18. ...I am Guan-Yin and I believe all children deserve to live in a world that doesn't yet exist...

    ...AMEN!

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  19. A powerful poem well written from the heart for something that is hideously out of control in ALL walks of life and around the globe. An important poem/post

    Joanny

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  20. Incredible post. Thank you. ((Cheryl))

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  21. this is way too powerful, cheryl! i hope it gets the message across. but why do most people turn a blind eye and deaf ear to our children's pleas? i have 3 young kids and i wish/hope for a better and safer world for them. thanks for this lovely piece!

    Medieval Mist

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  22. this message is much needed in our society- thanks for the sharing..

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  23. i joined in cheryl...just put mine up...

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  24. Respected Mam,
    at first i am thankful to Joanny,because she had suggested me to visit this blog.otherwise it was mybad luck to not rech and read this blog post.agin thanx to Joanny.
    It's really very well expressed and nicely writen post.And after reading this every man could certainly think about children and thier word,to protect them.
    Mam i am also tryng to do some betterment for children through my writings.I am requesting you to visit my blog children's heaven also. the link is---
    http://childrensheaven.blogspot.com.
    With regards.
    Hemant

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  25. May the world of Guan-Yin and her dream for her children come to be.

    God bless you and those children. May the day come when such things are no longer recent memories but the tales of ancient history.

    Traci

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  26. This was very powerful. I re-read it several times just to soak it all in.

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  27. A world that doesn't yet exist...I can only hope that some day it does. Beautifully written.

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  28. It truly is tragic that this world does not yet exist. Very painful and powerful poem.

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  29. This is one of THE most moving poems I have EVER read! I wanna be Guan Yin! I want to create and be part of a world that loves children for who they are, that cares for its children, that never leaves them unprotected.
    We feel honored that you have shared this amazing message at Poetry Potluck. Thank you so much, Cheryl... this is indeed a beautiful thing to do! Call it wishful thinking... but every reality is the result of some dream somewhere...
    So, cheers to that, to you, and to Mariska's noble cause (I totally love her in SVU!), and to all the beautiful children that are born into this world, and make it a place worth living!

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  30. So incredibly sad! As a mom who works hard to protect, teach, encourage wisdom, good choices, to see beauty in life, but to beware of those who would steal goodness, to instill respect, nobleness and courage to stand up for those who cannot - your post shows the battle that rages. Yes, our world is not yet perfect, but thankfully, there are people, like you and so many others, who want to help the hurting, the hopeless and the hungry. Bravo for an honest look at what we stand against!

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  31. You expressed this so well. May a better world for all children happen soon.

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  32. This was so sad, yet I know you needed to say it. Thank you for highlighting the pain that needn't be.

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  33. Happy Friday,
    Thanks for linking up.
    Hope to see you next Monday...

    your work is inspirational and adds favor and light to our party...
    Way to go.
    Smiles!

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  34. Very beautiful written from the heart.. Loved it..

    Dedication

    --Someone Is Special--

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  35. Its very well written,and its so poignant too, written from the deep heart and with feelings that come from being attuned to sufferings of the children... Nice


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