19 June 2010

Do it for yourself then do it for your partner or spouse

Each morning when I hop onto my computer, the first place I go is The Breast Cancer Site. In June, they've devoted quite a few of their cover stories to raise awareness of breast cancer in men. While inelegantly written, this one really touched my heart. It's short and carries a very strong message. I hope you'll each take a minute to read it then head back to the main page to have your click counted. This PSA is now over.

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Since it's Saturday, I'm linking up to Saturday Centus over at Jenny's place. Each week Mr. Jenny provides us with a prompt then sends us on our way to write. There are rules: the prompt must be left intact; the story has to be told in 100 words or less, excluding the prompt; and *gasp* no pictures allowed.

I've decided I'll be writing about something true whenever it's possible.

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The call came after midnight. It's time. My father and mother went to pick up Memere. My sister rode with me to the hospital. All of us silently rode the elevator to the third floor.

The ICU nurse kindly told Memere that Pepere had held on as long as he could. He'd waited until she was in the building before passing. . .

Awakened from my reverie by the cart, I sighed. It was Fathers Day, 1984. When I heard that voice in the hallway, I politely sent the maid away. I needed time to find my happy voice. Two months had passed. I knew dad would need happy today.

Peace.

Memere (mem ay) and Pepere (pep ay) are the French Candian names we called my father's parents.

15 thinkers thunk a thought:

  1. Ah...I have stood in those shoes. I understand.

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  2. Times like these, memories like these can hit you like a sucker punch.

    Nice work, Cheryl!!

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  3. Like PJ, I felt the punch. Well done.

    =)

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  4. Hi Cheryl, thanks for your visit. You have written a very nice post. True father's day, or any other day, for that matter, can bring back memories. Hopefully they are good ones. I lost my dad at age 8 due to alcohol, he just left us. As an adult I learned how to understand his side of the story, finally before he died in 1984. Blessings
    QMM

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  5. great blog ~ glad I stopped by!

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  6. Cheryl, I could feel the elevator as it rose to the third floor. Well done.

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  7. This was great but very sad Centus this week. Reminds me of my dad when he passed although it was nothing like this. Good job.

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  8. So, what is it about these holidays and writing memes to bring out the sadness and melancholy in us?? Well done Cheryl:-) Hope you are well..Peace and blessings

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  9. Yes, not many think people about man and breast cancer.

    In New Zealand, Breast Cancer awareness is in Oct. Not many people gor for the screening.

    They advertise like yiu say" do it for your family, do it for yourself."

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  10. Simply beautiful, beautifully simple and poignant, well written.

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  11. Aww Cheryl, I hope this memory isn't such a sad one now...

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  12. Great emotions evoked in this one. Nicely done.

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  13. Cheryl, My eyes are teary over this. I feel the poignant loss in this piece. And you are wrong. This is very elegant writing, spare and powerful. Thank you for linking.

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